October Has Come/How To: Not Feel Lonely

WELCOME

First post of the month!!!! I literally have been anticipating this SO much! I just hope you guys have too! Well September was an amazing month for us and the trek to creating more and more Ambitious Daydreamers...our viewing audience grew exponentially which surprised me in ways I can't describe.. and I hope I inspired you all to appreciate your loved ones even more!(cough cough..SAPPY SEPTEMBER) Also, we got certified as a blog with substance, as well as skyrocketing to the top spots on Google! BUT what does October have to bring for us?!?! Let us discuss...To begin with, I had the opportunity to guest post on an AMAZING blog, www.cassandrapedia.com ! This is a HUGE deal for getting my vision out there so that was REALLY exciting! GO CHECK OUT HER PAGE!

Alright so moving onto the other things I have planned for this month...some cool new additions are coming to blog...I hope to change the look a little, I'm adding a place for some of my most favorite quotes, I might even add an advice section (only if ppl comment saying YES), and I have a HUGE surprise that I can't disclose...just cause I like surprises! But yes, this month has some excitement coming, and I hope you guys continue to support my ambitious daydreams. Make sure you tell everyone you know about this page! Share it, comment on posts, get fully invested in this whole experience because that is EXACTLY what I have done at this point. No comment is not worth hearing, if you hate something, which I hope you don't, TELL ME! If you LOVE something....PLEASE TELL ME! It feels good knowing that my words aren't just going on a page with no one being moved by them. 

HERE IS THE POST

Why does everyone want to fall in love? What's so great about it? Why is everyone else happy but me?...This is what a lot of lonely people sound like. I'm not saying this to be mean or bitter -- I say this because just as you guys were probably shocked by reading that, it has the same result when other people read those words from your social accounts. You guys have read my blog. You pretty much know every detail that is my life. I have experienced heartaches, I have been cheated on, I have been disappointed in people, but one thing I never do is wholeheartedly believe that I am meant to be forever lonely. I know that you can read this on a wall at school or hear it from your parents but let me tell you that you are worth someone's time. YOU are meant to be with someone. YOU are meant to love other's and feel the happiness that all of those disgustingly cute couples do! Am I telling you that you won't hit rough patches? Hell no. I've been there. I know how it feels to wonder why you are getting out of the bed in the morning. I know how it feels to wonder if anyone actually sees the real you -- if people really understand...or will they ever? It's okay to be in a slump! They happen from time to time...but you are meant to rise above the bad times in life. For example, recently I fell for someone I wasn't supposed to. I believed that they could feel the same...that they could love me like I love them...that they had changed. Unfortunately, this person couldn't see what I did. They couldn't understand that we could be perfection. While that was a harsh reality to come to, while I did take a night to drink and cry about how life sucks (bad idea), while I did take a few weeks to get back to myself... HERE I AM, completely happy with where my life is right now. I have realized that love isn't something that we should have to try to find. We are meant to sit back, think about exactly what we want out of relationships for that moment when something happens, but we can't forget to live life! Don't get stuck in the fact that you don't have A significant other, because I guarantee there are MANY significant people in your life that need love. Treasure your friends, your loved ones -- don't waste life consistently worried about when that special someone is coming! Be happy with where your life is right now. Be happy as a complete human being and then allow someone to come in, like extra credit for being awesome! You already made the test your b****, now really rub it in and get the bonus questions right! That's what relationships are supposed to be, extra credit in the test of life. Don't get hung up on getting the extremely confusing bonus questions right and then forget about the ones that matter most. Don't fail this test just because you wanted that extra credit. Work on acing this thing called life, and then check out those bonus questions! Happy studying!


My inspiration? Tori Kelly, who's new EP: FOREWORD comes out in a couple days...BUY IT!